As far as frets go stainless steel are the winner EVO gold are second best as far as hardness then nickle silver in that order.
I have 3 guitars with SS frets they don't eat strings.
I intentionally avoided stainless because of how long it takes to work them. The Evo's are totally bombproof. No additional hardness is needed.
Not sure I follow your meaning when you say EVO is “bombproof”, yet additional hardness is not necessary.
Jescar EVO is harder than traditional nickel silver, though not as hard as stainless.
Jescar even highlights the greater hardness of their fret wire on their website.
Am I missing something? Or are you just suggesting that you don’t think the extra hardness of stainless is necessary?

I like Pyramid strings on my electrics. I’ve been very happy with them since I started using them. On my Dobro…
You know, John, you have some classy gear.
I almost feel like using too many superlatives misses the point. It’s just very classy.
Very nice.
Same here. Don’t remember ever breaking a string while playing. Have only broken a few while stringing up. Weirdest string break happened on my 12 string. Several years ago while sitting playing my acoustic….. heard a “twang.” Opened the 12 string case and found a broken string.I only break strings when I get a bit to enthusiastic trying to stretch them in. I haven't broken a string playing for many years
Don't really sweat either (hard to get hot in Yorkshire!).
My acoustic gets Elixers. Won’t experiment there. My electrics….. I’m not as tough on strings as some of you guys, so I haven’t been fussy. I don’t break strings playing. I’ve tried a few different brands and haven’t really noticed much difference. They all sound and feel great when new and crappy when they get old and greasy.
I used Martin’s on the Ovation almost from day one. (1974). Then my youngest borrowed the guitar while he was in college….. early 2000s. When he restrung it he used Elixers. When I got the guitar back, I tried a set of Martin’s. One time. Elixers tone was better and lasted a lot longer before losing that tone. And that’s what I’ve used since.Just curious IB, no experimenting, But in the past, did you ever try Martin acoustic strings, a friend recommended them to me.
Robert got his rough on hands, picks, strings etc ramifications from Pete's guitar smashing DNA.I used Martin’s on the Ovation almost from day one. (1974). Then my youngest borrowed the guitar while he was in college….. early 2000s. When he restrung it he used Elixers. When I got the guitar back, I tried a set of Martin’s. One time. Elixers tone was better and lasted a lot longer before losing that tone. And that’s what I’ve used since.
What I found. Like pretty much any brand string you buy, they sound awesome when new. Reason I repossessed my guitar from my kid was, I’d joined the worship team at my church. I restrung it with the Martin’s I’d always used. I killed them in a month or so. Tried the Elixers…. Six months later they were just starting to lose tone. That’d be why I won’t experiment on the acoustic.Thank you IB. I have 2 Acoustics. One is an Ovation the other a Fender. I wanted to try these 2 with the Martins I picked up. I am sure they will do me fine with what little acoustic playing I do. But I will try the Elixirs next go round
I used Martin’s on the Ovation almost from day one. (1974). Then my youngest borrowed the guitar while he was in college….. early 2000s. When he restrung it he used Elixers. When I got the guitar back, I tried a set of Martin’s. One time. Elixers tone was better and lasted a lot longer before losing that tone. And that’s what I’ve used since.