I've used both tube and solid-state amps in a live setting.
I have no negative feelings toward them.
But, these days, I use a modeler exclusively.
This is my rig:
Honestly, the sheer flexibility I get with it for live use, combined with the good sound it can achieve, pretty much makes physical amps of any variety a non-starter for me.
I'll be using it for a gig this afternoon, in about four hours, as a matter of fact!
Anyway, everything comes down to how you build your patches. One small example is mic placement modelling. As is the case in the real world, I can make a rather significant effect on the tone, just by changing out the mic model and how it is positioned.
I've gotten several unsolicited compliments on my sounds from the Helix.
I used to use a Line6 POD X3 Live. I used it live, as well and it was okay, but the Helix is better in every way, including the sound.
The Helix, or modelers/processors similar to it, are just fantastic in my book. I have a pedal board built for it, as can be seen in my photo above. This means that when it comes to the "amp", "cabinet", and "effects", I grab one thing - ONE THING - and place it on the stage and run an XLR to the house. I get my sound back to me on a stage monitor, or in ears - okay...so maybe that's two things! But, you get the point. I can be set up and ready to go in minutes and occupy a minimum of stage space. My two guitars on stands take up more room than my rig.
Anyway, again, I have absolutely no hate for physical amps of any variety and I totally understand why some people use them. Use what works for you! But, for me, it just works way better to do things this way.