You are spot-on Gahr. Allow me to clarify a bit. When I have played smaller venues, where everyone is mic'd, it is possible to preserve every nuance.
Recently, I've found myself more and more playing larger indoor (and outdoor venues) where there is no PA system except for the vocalist. In these situations, I'm running the amp close to flat out - even though we have a good mix.
The huge backyard parties - where we are setup either on the cool deck or a tennis court- are very challenging because the acoustics are virtually non-existent and they want to hear the music at the bar area.
What I have noticed is, I am beginning to care less and less about the guitar I am playing from a "nuance" standpoint and just focusing on playing.
All three of my guitars (VH/SG/LP) have identical neck profiles and scale length, which I love. It's just something I need to have to feel comfortable.
I took the LP and SG both to rehearsal yesterday because one was tuned A-440 and the other Eb. For live playing, That's my only criterion for having more than one guitar.
In the studio, I often pick up the DoubleNeck because its a thicker, meatier, sound and on a recording, you will hear it.
But live, it really doesn't matter in this genre. All three of my guitars perform the same tonally, and in that case, I will often choose the VH Double Neck for it's stage presence.
A while back, I was playing a private party on an estate in Rancho Mirage. The set list was drafted by the host and it included lots of obscure covers from the 1980's and a lot of it was hard rock. I got pulled in as a fill-in.
Initially the band was playing like they were sleepy and the crowd was really disconnected. I can't explain it any better than that. So, I told the bandleader, let's go off the sheet and wake them up.
I cranked my DSL40C and hit the intro to Cat Scratch Fever (right after a Toto number) so loudly that people literally jumped and I played as if I was trying to saw through my guitar with the pic. The crowd literally exploded and we went on and off list for the rest of the event. The finale was Motorhead's Ace of Spades followed by Hotel California as a closing number.
I played with total abandon - I mean literally flat out - and not all that cleanly either, and that energy was somehow infused into the crowd and the band picked it up too and it became a very energetic performance.
Aside from my pay that night, the host tipped me $700.00
So, I'm finding that I seem to earn more - and people comment more often -when I play more like Mr. Page. I am sure many guitarists would criticize the "wild" (even sloppy at times) playing, but that seems more and more what people are asking for.
Now at a winery...you really have to pull back, and here's where you can hear the difference between a Les Paul and a Stratocaster, but you also are not taking home big rolls of dough. Winery's almost always pay by check and a lot of dudes comp food and drink out of their fee and largely play for free, although some do offer the band free food and drink, not all do.
I suppose I have got to the point where I'm just playing to the crowd and ignoring the guitar players who may be in the crowd - since the guitarists are not the ones paying my bills.
I still have no clue where this musical journey will lead, but I hope it leads to a band home...