It's complicated.
I grew up in a house full of classical music. Vinyl records. Hundreds of them. Some 50s jazz thrown in. Stuck in the middle of that, the Beatles' albums. I knew my Beethoven (at least the piano and violin works) by heart at the age of 6 and loved him.
Funny, as a kid I've always looked at his portrait by Karl Joseph Stieler, the one he's pictured with a grayish wavy and stormy hair and a red coat, and thought "this guy must have been a badass musician"... the "Rockstar" attitude already had its charm over me. I wanted to be like that.
Well, the first time I listened to Revolver I realized that I had been born to love the sound of the overdriven electric guitar. Led Zep and then Guns and Roses followed.
My parents play music, but they can't stand rock n roll and electric music at all. Father plays classical guitar, mother plays the violin. They both listened to the Beatles on the radio back in the 60s and they enjoyed them because they were what was on the radio. Hence the records. BUt my father would have a hard time justifying himself if you asked him why he liked the Beatles even though they played... electric guitars.
I always wanted to be a rock guitarist, but they just wouldn't let me. I even studied and played classical guitar at a university just to stay as close as I could get to the 6-string, but that gave me little or no pleasure, although I can say I mastered that instrument quite well.
They thought that if they gave me an electric guitar, I'd instantly become a drug addicted punk or hippie, quit school, and all sorts of other stupid crap. Yes, they would insinuate that Rock and Roll was for homosexuals. Funny thing is: they didn't exactly forbid it, but they sure did know how to make me give up by showing their deepest disgust and even horror at the subtlest mention of me wanting to play electric (it is incredible how you can be more easily driven off your dreams by nice parents than by bad ones, and allow me to say, that SUCKS).
Due to the lack of satisfaction, and why not say the musical frustration I had been led to, I quit playing for more than a decade, and only then, after a tough divorce, fighting depression, I decided to seize my old dream and buy an electric after a friend tried to make me buy a videogame to play something called "guitar hero" or whatever and I felt rediculous with that guitar-shaped joystick. That made me crave for the real thing I was meant to do.
The results:
1) now I'm a guy in his early 40s who is always trying to make up for lost time with the guitar. I am almost sure that I will never be the player I could have become if I had had an electric when I was a teenager instead of a nylon strung acoustic.
Now I got several professional gigs in my curriculum vitae. After the first one of them, I told my singer "hey, I don't think I'm the same guy anymore" and he said "you're not. Now you're a professional musician, you've been paid to play guitar". That's who I've become. The real me.
2) I hate classical guitar, can't stand the sound of it.
I'm happy enough because I do play an electric, but I really won't EVER forgive the fact that I was kinda forced to waste so many years with music that just didn't suit me.
I still feel bad when I think about this. It was nice to share here.
P.S.
This same thread was posted back in the ETSG forum, and I replied something quite alike. A few of years ago, that was. And my reply included this:
"I never played in a real band because of that. Not sure if I ever will."
Now, please allow me to speak to that very same Sergio who typed that reply: You did it, man. You did it and you became who you wanted to be, most of all. Congrats, partner.