Red Pill or Blue Pill?

Are you a Red Pill Person or a Blue Pill Person? As in The Matrix, not politics


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I agree that there's a bit of a trend to point to things as 'privilege'. I'm curious to what is implied or meant by the term in this context.
It's a debate tactic to put you on your verbal / emotional back foot. So now you have to waste time to explain / defend yourself and thus are deflected from the main point. Best to be ignored and focus on the point. To my shame I felt compelled to swing at the flying turd.

Conversation is not debate. We waste too much time trying to win.

"White Rabbit' is also one of @iblive favorite songs.
I heard it at the ripe old and wise age of nine and REALLY wanted to be ten feet tall... It took a few years for that goal to be achieved.

Russ
 
I somehow managed to survive a stream of bad choices myself, but all of the bad stuff (including alcoholism and recovery) have given me a perspective that I never would have had if I hadn’t have followed the path of poor choices. And part of that perspective is that I will not be shamed into feeling guilty about having some kind of ‘privilege’ because of where I was born or how I was raised.
I’m a retired Engineering Director. A lot of my young engineers would ask how I made decisions. I’d say:

I use my good judgement.
My good judgement is based on my experience.
My experience is based on my bad judgement.

I would tell them never feel guilty about failing, it teaches you life lessons.
 
I’m a retired Engineering Director. A lot of my young engineers would ask how I made decisions. I’d say:

I use my good judgement.
My good judgement is based on my experience.
My experience is based on my bad judgement.

I would tell them never feel guilty about failing, it teaches you life lessons.
I can relate to that.
When I was forced into the position of Engineering Manager at a company I worked at years ago I struggled to maintain good relationships with people within my department. There were times that I made decisions that would upset their apple cart, often.
A year later, one of the guys who worked for me said, "Randy, there are times you mansge to make decisions that piss people off, but at the end of every work day everyone still wants to go out and have a beer with you. How do you do that?"

Respect towards one another is a two way street.
 
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