The method of attaching the pole pieces is not that important from the standpoint of making an operable pickup. All that is really necessary is that the pole pieces either contact, or are close enough to, the magnet to become magnetized by it.
As an example, the pickups used in some cheaper Strats aren’t made at all like the typical Strat pickups. Rather than being individual magnets, the pole pieces are just steel slugs that extend underneath the bobbin. The slugs make contact with two narrow bar magnets that are just glued into place. There’s no elaborate fastening used. These pickups are often scorned, but the design concept is the same as a P-90, though the build is a cheaper way to go.
I do agree, though. Making a pickup with adjustable pole pieces that can end up with stripped threads is kind of a poor move from the standpoint of construction and adjustability.
I wouldn't mind ferrous black oxide either, if I could could find them in the same 3mm size with the countersunk heads...

