Don't make the mistake of thinking the world is a stage and we are players. The world is NOT a stage and we are NOT players. This is real life we are dealing with, and it is hard enough to meet it on those terms without inventing further complication.
I don't believe that I have made a mistake, although I will agree that we may have different perceptions of reality, neither of which may be incorrect. Take myself for example...
I play many roles on this stage, this multidimensional stage. To provide an income for my family I play the role of a friendly familiar voice on the phone that has the knowledge and ability to instantly rectify your technical issue at any hour of the day, and do so happily. This is the perception that the troubled caller has of me. This is the reality that I present to them. I may have just lost a family member and be feeling very blue, but the show must go on! I do my job and I do it well. My stage is a sound stage, audio only and my performance is critiqued with a "performance review." If my review is poor, I will get kicked off the stage and not allowed to perform there ever again. If my performance is well received I will be allowed to continue performing at this gig until one of the two parties concerned no longer wishes to accept this reality. Here is the fork in the road where you can decide to change your reality and find a new stage to perform on or your reality could come to a sudden crash when your reality is changed for you and find yourself unexpectedly unemployed.
I have another stage I perform on playing the role of a husband. This is this role that requires me to perform the sponsoring role mentioned above. This role is a cameo I am allowed to play myself and show emotion. If I'm unhappy, I can express my unhappiness to my wife. Husband role I play by choice, friendly neighborhood IT geek role is played to support me playing the role of secure husband provider. Different stage, different role.
Reality's stage can change, can change at the drop of a hat. For years people can believe something to be true and BAM! We find out that what we may have believed to be true once, was actually not true. Science found out something new and our reality has changed to accept this new perception of reality as it is presented to us. Sorry if I have confused you and brought further complication to your reality. I realize this is a lot to take in.



