One other thing that needs mentioning is Solid State watts are NOT tube watts. They just are not equal, no how no way. I've had 15-watt tube amps absolutely crush 50 watt SS amps in volume and projection.
There's an old saying that watts is watts and that's true from a technical standpoint, but I get what you're saying and I agree: perceived loudness is not the same between the two, whatsoever.
It's been said that while there is no true exact formula for the perceived loudness difference, a fair and common belief is 3:1. It takes 3 watts of SS to equal the loudness of 1 watt Tube. So in other words, taking a 50w SS Combo and setting it beside a 50w tube combo, both using the same 1x12 speaker, the tube combo will sound roughly 3x as louder than the SS at the same volume. For the two to be roughly equals, you'd need a 150w SS going against a 50w Tube.
I good proof of this is I have a 350w Hybrid amp ( tubed preamp, SS power amp). While it's indeed , no questions asked, truly 350w it doesn't mean it's 7x louder than my 50w Tube heads. In fact, it's only about 3x the loudness. To prove it, I took a decibel meter and conducted a lil test at almost 10ft from each of the same cabs, one being powered by the 350w SS, the other powered by the 50w tube
What I found, cranking them both to the absolute max, no pedals and just straight was:
The 50w going into a cab with 4 T75s was about 109.2dB.
The 350w going into an identical cab was at 116.8db.
That's roughly 7.6dBs difference. The human ear perceives a "double" in loudness by roughly a 3dB increase. At this, we would be sitting at just over 3x the loudness, which, is pretty accurate in this particular case. But compare that same amp against say, a 100w Tube head and the loudness is closer together with the SS MAYBE still being a lil louder. But take it against something like a 120w Tube head? Nope, the 350w SS suddenly is no longer the louder of the two although it's close.
Weird huh? Lol