Entering a new stage in life

Sérgio

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I've always been fond of martial arts in general.

I struggle constantly with my body weight and since I was a kid the only sports I was really ok at were martial arts. Took my first Judo classes at 6, and kept on throughout school... Later I learned boxing the old-fashioned way, sort of a la Hemingway, and despite the first beatings I stuck around and ended up boxing as an amateur regularly at the local gym.

A couple of years ago I began learning the way of Karatedo. Quite an inspiring and enriching discipline. I love it.

But I have reached a time and an age in which I can't do everything I want to do. I work, I like literature, I love listening to music, I like collecting books and vinyl records... I love playing even more, and I play in a professional gigging band.

I just don't have the time to do all this.

So I had to pick one to cast off. And it was my martial arts practice.

It happens that I am in my late 30s, I was never going to be any good at this entirely new style, and though I really felt good doing it, it was leading me nowhere particularly, whereas playing guitar IS indeed something I am developing more and more, studying, practicing, jamming, rehearsing, playing live.

If I had to pick ONE single activity I wouldn't ever want to stop doing, it would be music.

So, there goes my dojo time. Yesterday I went to the gym and switched my schedule, and began to work out (ya know, treadmill, weights, machines and all that stuff we do while we'd rather be somewhere else doing something else) early in the morning, before going to work. this way I got all nights for practicing and getting ready for my gigs.

Although I'll miss it, I'm sure I am doing the best with my time.

And hell yeah, I want to reach my 60s as an old guitar player, looking like Page, or a slightly leaner Jerry Garcia, not a Mr. Miyagi!

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Okay, off topic but relevant; and this seems to be an open ended thread, so...

Lots of things in life are about time and money and not enough of either.
I am much more careful about what I do with my hands since I started learning guitar a couple years ago at 50.

I did some informal martial arts for about 6 or so years as an older teen / young adult but that was more full contact street fight sparring with some rules / limitations and some hand / foot / head gear with a few friends and bags / skill training and watching a lot of Bruce Lee movies, LOL. Still have my heavy bag hung in the basement, but havent been working it much.
And reading legit books and practice. Even plastic escrima or other type sticks and nunchaka hurt like hell and leave some impressive welts.

I was watching some Page with Black Crows videos from 1994-ish last night trying to see some of how he plays Out on the Tiles but watched some others as well. I vaguely recall hearing of the collaboration but never sampled it.
He played pretty darn well for a guy with a reputation for sloppy stage work. I am still amazed.

I really envy you fellas who are actually gigging stage, or studio musicians at whatever level.

Our own Col. Mustard was out my way last year playing with, or opening for Peter Yarrow not more than 15 min. from me.
I would have gone but didnt know till after.

Rock On Sergio, you're one of my guitar heroes, you too Col.!
 
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As an aging man that did not lead a sedate life (near 30 years a cop, 8 years Army Ranger, and boxer) I can assure you that decades of training, combat, and fighting in the ring will take it's toll upon your hands. Wrists take tremendous punishment as well. This leaves you with less than nimble fingers. Between the damage and a couple strokes there are days I can scarcely hold a pick.

Sérgio, do continue to work out. Keep fit. Do your kata. But easy on the bag work... It is important to remain focused and aware for potential trouble and have well honed skills available to react. Remember, not everyone you encounter will wish you well. A downward side thrust kick to the knee and a solid back fist to the temple sure beats you recovering from being an injured victim instead of a victorious citizen. :cautious:
 
I've always been fond of martial arts in general.

I struggle constantly with my body weight and since I was a kid the only sports I was really ok at were martial arts. Took my first Judo classes at 6, and kept on throughout school... Later I learned boxing the old-fashioned way, sort of a la Hemingway, and despite the first beatings I stuck around and ended up boxing as an amateur regularly at the local gym.

A couple of years ago I began learning the way of Karatedo. Quite an inspiring and enriching discipline. I love it.

But I have reached a time and an age in which I can't do everything I want to do. I work, I like literature, I love listening to music, I like collecting books and vinyl records... I love playing even more, and I play in a professional gigging band.

I just don't have the time to do all this.

So I had to pick one to cast off. And it was my martial arts practice.

It happens that I am in my late 30s, I was never going to be any good at this entirely new style, and though I really felt good doing it, it was leading me nowhere particularly, whereas playing guitar IS indeed something I am developing more and more, studying, practicing, jamming, rehearsing, playing live.

If I had to pick ONE single activity I wouldn't ever want to stop doing, it would be music.

So, there goes my dojo time. Yesterday I went to the gym and switched my schedule, and began to work out (ya know, treadmill, weights, machines and all that stuff we do while we'd rather be somewhere else doing something else) early in the morning, before going to work. this way I got all nights for practicing and getting ready for my gigs.

Although I'll miss it, I'm sure I am doing the best with my time.

And hell yeah, I want to reach my 60s as an old guitar player, looking like Page, or a slightly leaner Jerry Garcia, not a Mr. Miyagi!

jimmy-page-nirvana-alice-in-chains-guns.jpg


Jerry-Garcia-01.jpg
Sometimes you just have to prioritize.

But as for martial arts, remember all the things you can do around the house to practice.

Sand floor!
Wax on, wax off!
Paint fence!

Mr. Miyagi was a cool dude.
 
Life is change.
To parrot Wade a bit. I have lead an ACTIVE LIFE....
FOOTBALL..
Basketball
Baseball
Hockey
Motocross
More broken bones than I can count
Bodybuilding(certified personal trainer)
Scuba diving
3 car accidents where the car was totalled
Arthritis.......2 blown discs.....Bad knees bad hip ......bad back.......... Carpal tunnel....

Yup 48 and I have wrecked the hell outta this carcass...

Don't overdo Sergio.....Life is a marathon not a sprint........I learned that the hard way. pace yourself.

FYI I still go to the gym 2 or three times a week ...... Great exercise ....And I can still out lift both my 25 year old sons.....

.
 
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Accepting change is a graceful and beautiful art form. You can either ride the wave or crash against it, but make no mistake, the tide is coming. I say catch that wave and glide in to the shores of life's end.
 
One never knows what the future holds. Do what you want to do, right now. I don't give anything up lightly. One good thing about our instrument is that most guitarists play right to the end. If I died on stage, that would suit me, just fine, but the rest of the band wouldn't care for it.
 
Biddlin has a very good point. Life doesn't wait for anyone. Do what you want, and do it while you still can.

I don't have very many goals in life, and I have achieved most of them already,(maybe most of them haven't been very exciting?). I have a wife and two kids, I got an education, I have a job I like (with a steady income), I have a house with a small garden, and I have a few SGs and a Vox AC30. My next major goal is to live to see my children get old. Perhaps not very original, but there will be a lot of fun (and some hard work and frustration) along the way. The rest of my life is pretty much what I make it. I'm through wasting time on things I don't like, and I don't want to hesitate doing what I want (as long as I can afford it...). I have started noticing I get older physically, which just makes me realize even more clearly that I can't waste my time on things I don't like.

I used to have a secure job that I didn't really like anymore, so when opportunity knocked, I thought about it for (quite literally) 10 seconds and said yes to the position as brewer in the brewery where I work (it was still only in the planning stages at the time). Best thing I ever did after marrying my wife and having children.

Looks like you'll still be physically active and keep fit, @Sérgio. Good idea, because it will help you enjoy the rest of what your life brings even more.

This song always puts things into perspective for me:
 
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Funny but I just sent my son this link that supports a lot of the personal theories I've held on making positive change & being successful in life & now I'm feeling like it might be worth sharing here.

The interview is old but real truth is timeless. It is old school but powerful information that has the ability if heeded to change one life for the better. I hope y'all find some usable knowledge in it.

 
Life is change.
To parrot Wade a bit. I have lead an ACTIVE LIFE....
FOOTBALL..
Basketball
Baseball
Hockey
Motocross
More broken bones than I can count
Bodybuilding(certified personal trainer)
Scuba diving
3 car accidents where the car was totalled
Arthritis.......2 blown discs.....Bad knees bad hip ......bad back.......... Carpal tunnel....

Yup 48 and I have wrecked the hell outta this carcass...

Don't overdo Sergio.....Life is a marathon not a sprint........I learned that the hard way. pace yourself.

FYI I still go to the gym 2 or three times a week ...... Great exercise ....And I can still out lift both my 25 year old sons.....

.

In the same boat here... Karate, football, hurling, kickboxing, 25+ years in the security industry (crowd control etc.), carpal tunnel and arthritis. Not a good recipe for a pain free old age.
 
In the same boat here... Karate, football, hurling, kickboxing, 25+ years in the security industry (crowd control etc.), carpal tunnel and arthritis. Not a good recipe for a pain free old age.

And you're looking great Brother!!

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And how is that Foot doing?? I'm guessing from the pic that it was your right one??

Hey, I gotta get one of those Bon Scott amps man! Looks like they might have stopped making them in 1981??
They look rock solid bro.
 
Alex, I think security has become an oxymoron in Australia now that guns have been outlawed, hasn't it?

I always seen the outback as having plenty of big brawny semi intelligent & somewhat dangerous.. oxy-morons.

Oh yes, the big set-up for a really bad joke. Hardy har har.
 
Good to see you here, Barry

Same here to you Sergio. I'm hoping this place catches on & pics up some traffic. I often find myself waiting a long time for replies to 'some' posts & would really love to engage in a bit quicker conversations & comments. But that's me being a picky lonely isolated mountain dwelling beotch. Other than that I absolutely love it here! Nice job to all involved.
 
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