This is exactly why I, in the end, stopped posting on ETSG. I haven't played my SGs, or indeed any guitar, in years, beyond bringing them out for help with writing a song, or a dose of rocking out. I felt out of place over there, like I didn't belong. I didn't have any guitar things to talk about. I'm also not a big gearhead, which compounded that even more. The main places I hung out were backstage and general music, with a peek every now and then to see if any bass topics popped up in other guitars.
Now I feel more included, and I still have many good friends from the other forum over here