I suck at playing the guitar

And I’m sick of it. I’ve been playing for nearly 60 freaking years, and I’ve spent TWO MONTHS trying to nail this jazz progression and can’t do it at tempo. I’m so fed up with my own playing I could puke, and it seems impossible to get better. I’m too old to develop new brain pathways, and I’m not happy with the way I play. Truth is, I never have been. I’m tried of pushing this rock uphill. I’m done.

So long, ya’ll. It’s been good to know you.
yup, you need to buy more effects pedals.
 
When my skills become stale, degrade or limitations occur due to health, I just figure out a different way to do what I want to do.

As a vocalist, I can’t do what I used to do. Surgeries on my neck and just age in general have destroyed my falsetto and upper registers of my natural voice.

As a harp/harmonica player, several bouts of pneumonia and bronchitis as well as gaining ten pounds in all the wrong places (right under my diaphragm) have made sure I don’t have the lung power I had twenty years ago.

Finally: eczema, arthritis and age have made the speed and flexibility of my hands (which was never great to begin with) go straight to Hades.

So what do I do?

Re-key the songs so they fit my new vocal range.

Play harp songs in a different fashion, which means I can’t do some of the “hold the note for a solid eight bars” thing anymore, but play more and/or better licks.

On guitar, I have to play more slide, use alternate tunings, use a capo, adjust my technique so my hands can keep up with the songs.

BUT DON’T GIVE UP!

By the way: I suck at playing guitar, too…but I ain’t gonna stop.
 
I’m sad to read of your frustration, and hope that you change your mind about quitting. You’re not alone in feeling this way…I am not terribly happy with my skills when factoring in the time spent either. However, long ago, I decided that my playing was for me and my pleasure. If others like it…great…if not…oh well. I’m not likely to ever be a shredder…nor do I care to be. I just want to be proficient at reproducing my own imagination.
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And I’m sick of it. I’ve been playing for nearly 60 freaking years, and I’ve spent TWO MONTHS trying to nail this jazz progression and can’t do it at tempo. I’m so fed up with my own playing I could puke, and it seems impossible to get better. I’m too old to develop new brain pathways, and I’m not happy with the way I play. Truth is, I never have been. I’m tried of pushing this rock uphill. I’m done.

So long, ya’ll. It’s been good to know you.

@Seamus OReally , please don't leave. Even if you are dissatisfied with your playing, that does not mean your input is not relevant.

Although this may seem like a guitar forum due to the vast preponderance of posts, the truth is that The Tone Rooms is not a guitar forum! That's right, this is not a guitar forum; it is a music forum. Even if you don't make a single additional post about guitar or playing guitar, your experience still contributes to the overall musical focus of this forum.

As an example, a person who has never played any instrument but can talk about music recording has a lot to contribute. That's just one scenario.

The point is, your contribution is still relevant and meaningful. One day, you may revisit guitar. Whether you do or not has no bearing on the value you can bring to the forum.
 
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@Seamus OReally , please don't leave. Even if you are dissatisfied with your playing, that does not mean your input is not relevant.

Although this may seem like a guitar forum due to the vast preponderance of posts, the truth is that The Tone Rooms is not a guitar forum! That's right, this is not a guitar forum; it is a music forum. Even if you don't make a single additional post about guitar or playing guitar, your experience still contributes to the overall musical direction of this forum.

As an example, a person who has never played any instrument but can talk about music recording has a lot to contribute. That's just one scenario.

The point is, your contribution is still relevant and meaningful. One day, you may revisit guitar. Whether you do or not has no bearing on the value you can bring to the forum.
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I'm a rhythm player most of the time one thing my drum teacher showed me when I had trouble was to play at 1/4 1/2 3/4 and full speed
 
Ive been chasing the skills of the 16 year old kid that inspired me to play in the first place. It appears I will never catch that smart ass kid, much less what he developed into. That being said I play because I love to, not for any other reason. I can’t even get those that care about me to listen to my playing. But I still love it, I still suck. Oh well, I hope you’re having a better day today. The sun will come out………



Tomorrow ;):ROFLMAO:
 
BTW Seamus we all get a kick to the chops every once in a while. I worked pretty hard a while back and posted a jazz chord melody over at the other place and I was pretty happy to at least have it under the fingers so to speak. Well the response I got was, "next time try to play with some feeling" :blink::facepalm:. I guess i'll just suck all by myself in the corner, okay then.
 
Well the response I got was, "next time try to play with some feeling" :blink::facepalm:. I guess i'll just suck all by myself in the corner, okay then.
People who don't and/or can't play on these goofy discussion forums can always be counted on to critique and attempt to troll the playing of the select few who bother to post clips.

It speaks to their own insecurities and jealousy.. nothing more.

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I've been struggling with the same frustration.
I'm somewhere in the Intermediate Player category I suppose, and never thought I would be a pro level player, which is fine.

Since getting past the hand surgeries that sidelined me for most of 2024, I'm still a bit rusty and cant do what I could do reasonably smooth or with out flubs before.
The continued fatigue / tiredness I often have really hurts my playing. I'm just not sharp and focused most evenings.
Late day coffee or tea can help but also interferes with sleep and compounds the fatigue problem.

Sometimes I can sort of grind through it or it takes longer to loosen up / warm up / gain that fluidity.
Sometimes not and everything is a struggle, and I call it a night.

Not giving up though, I still have the desire.
 
I've been struggling with the same frustration.
I'm somewhere in the Intermediate Player category I suppose, and never thought I would be a pro level player, which is fine.

Since getting past the hand surgeries that sidelined me for most of 2024, I'm still a bit rusty and cant do what I could do reasonably smooth or with out flubs before.
The continued fatigue / tiredness I often have really hurts my playing. I'm just not sharp and focused most evenings.
Late day coffee or tea can help but also interferes with sleep and compounds the fatigue problem.

Sometimes I can sort of grind through it or it takes longer to loosen up / warm up / gain that fluidity.
Sometimes not and everything is a struggle, and I call it a night.

Not giving up though, I still have the desire.
I’m sorry you have to deal with that. ☹️
 
And I’m sick of it. I’ve been playing for nearly 60 freaking years, and I’ve spent TWO MONTHS trying to nail this jazz progression and can’t do it at tempo. I’m so fed up with my own playing I could puke, and it seems impossible to get better. I’m too old to develop new brain pathways, and I’m not happy with the way I play. Truth is, I never have been. I’m tried of pushing this rock uphill. I’m done.

So long, ya’ll. It’s been good to know you.
Apparently you haven't heard me " play " guitar!!

All those discussions about
Noiseless Pickups ---
I'm pretty positive my neighbor wishes I had a " Soundless Amp "!!!
 
I’m r
Ive been chasing the skills of the 16 year old kid that inspired me to play in the first place. It appears I will never catch that smart ass kid, much less what he developed into. That being said I play because I love to, not for any other reason. I can’t even get those that care about me to listen to my playing. But I still love it, I still suck. Oh well, I hope you’re having a better day today. The sun will come out………



Tomorrow ;)
I am right there there with you C-Grin.
I have had a few crazy fans over the years.
I think it bores my wife to tears. lol
I am so much more in to the recording aspect, I play to record.
 
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