I don't remember exactly when I became aware of music. My dad used to listen to Louis Armstrong and Django Reinhardt, but they never really had an impact on me until a lot later. I was born in 1973 and I have three sisters, 8, 11 and 12 years older than me, respectively. They listened to the pop music of the day in the '70s, I remember hearing, ABBA, Brotherhood of Man, the "Grease" soundtrack and towards the end of the decade also the odd Dire Straits song.
But it was my best friend and his older brother who really got me interested in music. His brother was into prog rock. Pink Floyd, Rush, Focus and Mannfred Mann's Earth Band in particular. Me and my friend soon became Pink Floyd Fans. And then there was Kiss, of course, but in the beginning that was a lot more about the personas, the stories and the looks than the music.
The first music I owned myself was Pink Floyd's "The Wall" my friend got it for me in 1979. He already had all the Pink Floyd albums. His brother wouldn't let us borrow his records when he was not around, so my friend got save all the money he got and bought his own copies of all the albums. I distinctly remember listening to "Ummagumma" for the first time. I don't exactly remember how old I was, but I'm guessing I was around seven. Holy Moses! We were completely mesmerized by all the strange things going on on that record. The screeching noises on "Several Species of Small Furry Animals Gathered Together in a Cave and Grooving with a Pict" (just remembering the title is a bloody feat!) left us completely stunned. What the hell was all this? You would think that stuff like that would turn a kid off of the music completely, but for some reason we weren't turned off, we were fascinated. I have a feeling some of this stems from my parents' dragging me around to art exhibitions and plays when I was fairly young. I was used to seeing and hearing things that I didn't necessarily understand, but I understood that these things could actually carry a meaning (or several meanings) even though it was not apparent on the surface. My mother was also an art teacher in primary school, and my parents had several artist friends, so I guess that helped too.
Anyway, what first interested me was the drums, but I were never really interested in playing an instrument myself in the beginning. Then, when I was eight, my parents decided I should take piano lessons. I was not a very good student, but at least it gave me a rudimentary understanding of music. I quit when I was 12. By that time I was more interested i sports (I was a handball goalkeeper of some talent), and I had started learning guitar basics in school. And then I heard Van Halen.
I discovered Van Halen in 1984. I was immediately blown away. Van Halen was everything I was not. They were cool, confident, brash and bold. The sheer exhuberance of their music got tom me instantly. The first record I bought for my own money was "Fair Warining", and I still consider it the best record ever made by any band or artist. Van Halen's music has meant more to me than any other music ever. Van Halen was the reason I bought my first electric guitar when I was 14. I would have bought one earlier, but I could never afford it, and my parents buying one for me was out of the question.
Van Halen is also the reason why I became a fan and student of the blues. Eddie's idol was Clapton. So I started listening closer to EC, especially his early stuff. I had a friend who was a Clapton fan when we were quite young (mainly because his mum was a fan), so I had heard some of his music already, but I had never got into it. But hearing the Beano album by John Mayall was a game changer for me. THIS was the music I wanted to play. That in turn lead me to listening to guys like Peter Green, Mick Taylor, Muddy Waters, Robert Johnson, B. B. King, Freddie King, Buddy Guy, John Lee Hooker, Elmore James, Taj Mahal, Johnny Winter and so on. At 14 I also joined a band, and we were listening a lot to Southern rock bands like Lynyrd Skynyrd and the Allman Brothers Band, largely trying to model our sound on those two bands in particular (we were three guitar players and had a Hammond player as well). I also discovered the J. Geils Band. J. Geils was very important for me as a player. He made me see that it is not what you play but how you play it that is important. He was not a very technical player, but he was cool. Everything he played mattered. I am not very technically advanced either, but J. Geils taught me to focus on my own style instead.
If I look back at my "progression" as a guitar player, I see my most important influences as being Eddie Van Halen, Eric Clapton, J. Geils, B. B. King, Peter Green and Duane Allman. I don't conciously try to sound like any of them (and as much as I would have loved to, I could NEVER play like Eddie anyway...), but it is all there, in the back of my mind when I play.